Ask the Counselor . . .
Wed, 02/19/2014 - 19:06
Edgar
By SUSAN LAUTZ. LPC.
Dear Susan:
I’m a 20-something male who has been living with my girlfriend for about a year. When we met I was living with my parents and she had her own apartment. Since I was spending all my time over at her place, we decided I should just move in. We were both working, but about a month after I moved in, she quit her job and hasn’t worked since. I suppose I wouldn’t mind paying all the bills if I could come home to a clean house and a nice dinner, but that isn’t happening. If I want anything cooked, I have to do it myself. Likewise with the cleaning and laundry. My girlfriend says she’s looking for work, but all I see is her playing video games, talking on the phone with her friends and watching TV. But if I mention any of that, she cries and says I hate her.
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